Random rant: Why do men wear pants on their thighs!?

Opening Question About Sagging Pants 0:00

Gentlemen, I am curious, as a woman, what's going on here? Tell me your motivation, why do you do it? What kind of, you know, does it get you attention? You know? Are you getting laid? are women falling for this? Is this, do we like need to re-educate the young women? They'd be like, no, but you can't, shouldn't give them any play until they get a belt. But maybe they think it's cool. I don't know. Let's go! I just drove back from a failed attempt to mail my neurofeedback equipment to some people because the UPS store closed at three and I did not know that.

They changed their hours. So, sorry y'all, everything's gonna have to go Monday. Now, as I'm driving, I see a young man walking down the street. And what do I say? Which we all know what this is. the bubble butt, black underwear, and the pants underneath at the bottom. Very purposely, right? On purpose. It's not cause you don't have a belt. Pants below. So we have full, you know, it's covered in underwear but it is full exposure of the butt crack. I, okay, somebody says, he's did this in the sun's butt.

Why? Why is this still happening? So at my son's basketball things, AAU on the weekends, I see tons of grown ass men. That was like a, that was, you know, 17, 18, 19, 20. I don't know.

Why Men Wear Their Pants Low 2:00

But fit body, so I'm confused. I have my, I hypothesize, you know, that a stable body and fitness and working out and eating well leads to a stabile brain and that leads a stable behavior. But I see a lot of people, like this, a lotta stable bodies, thin muscles, they are making good choices. They are some good choice, right? But why doesn't the brain make the good choice, the behavior of pulling off the pants? Why are they thinking still, this is a good thing? Is it? And so I see these men, 40, 50, 60 maybe, with their asses all doing that.

I'm like, wow, these are grown, These are the dads. They'll have a job, they're paying for this shit. It's an overpriced AAU. We're all paying, I don't know, just a racket. But okay. So why do they want us to see their underwear this badly? Like, how did that become appropriate? And why is it still going, I know the backstory of the prison, the whole backstory, and the gangs and what it meant and blah blah. We all know it. Why is it still going on? And I've never been able to ask them. I really want to go and get a focus group of them hanging out in the corner or be like, whatever.

So, gentlemen, I am curious, as a woman, what's going here? Tell me your motivation. Why do you do it? What kind of, you know, does it get you attention? You know? Are you getting laid? falling for this is this do we like need to re-educate the young women they'd be like no but you can't shouldn't give them any play until they get a belt but maybe they think it's cool i don't know well bill cosby said all kinds of shit he was raping people so i really don' know if we should take bill Cosby's advice because he's a big old treasonous rape i mean i know i shouldn' use that word he is nasty he fooled us all didn't he oh Bill Cosby, damn.

About ruin my damn childhood with that whole revelation. That was hard, I'm not gonna lie. You know, yeah, it's a thug tough guy thing. They think it looks like they're badass. It's easier to look tough. How exactly is exposing your butthole make you tough? I don't understand. I mean, is the idea of Try to rate me in the ass and you'll see what happens to you. Is that what the message, like, try, look, I'm a trough, cause I show my butt. I don't get it. And is that why men do? I dunno.I never dated a man with his ass showing.

So, oh,I don' get. it And I dated some thugs. I dated drug runners and gun runners, and drug dealers in Detroit. Nobody had their ass hanging out. So I don't understand it, I dont. I understand why it's continued, you know? What do you guys think about it? Let it breathe. Oh, oh I mean I just saw it and I'm like, so women do like it huh? I guess is that really what it is? I don't want to say I blame women then, but maybe I blamed women. Why are you, you know what I mean? You know, there's that one stand up talks about that.

Like men who don' t know how to make love and they're really bad and bad. And she finally was like, well, I believe all the women, why are faking it?

Cultural Norms, Toughness, and Confusion 6:00

Like why do you let him think he's competent when he is not? I'm just saying. It just really, Cause with this podcast coming out Monday and working on writing this, this this kind of like manual to optimal brain health for my son, like what is happening in the psyche of these men that are still doing this? And then the culture at large, it looks so stupid. Every time I see it, I'm like, My son thinks I look stupid, so I mean, fine, but a lot of people don't. I want to understand it. know i feel like people walk around like this hi how you doing oh i'm like oh god it's did a butterfly get stuck to your face what the fuck is happening there why are you love his music and I saw his face I'm like he's not safe he is not right something is so wrong there it makes me nervous and as a mother I want to hug him and say oh baby we need to I need help you what did they do to you in your face why would you do that I don't know these are the things that as I go out in the world and see people I like oh I'm like, are you hurting?

Do you need help? That's what I wanna say almost everywhere I go. That why I don't go places. Well, that's all I got. I think there's something wrong with it though. Personally, I want to help save the men's pants. It's so weird. And what's even weirder is like almost all of them have these like rock hard, incredible glute, strong bubble butts. I'm like, it would look so much better if you pulled your pants up. It looks so better. Then you wouldn't have to walk all stupid, like they're straddled, the way they walk, their legs all straddle and stupid because they can't actually do anything.

That's all I think about stuff like that. I'm like, what would you do if you had to save somebody running to the street and save them? You couldn't because your pants would fall down to your knees and you fall over and then the child or the dog would get hit by a car. So I just see it as incompetence and incapable of things, but I don't know. Maybe I like some throwback from 1947 sometimes. Oh, I understand myself from myself. Like, I want the underwear pants to end. I took my son to the mall a couple weeks ago.

We were at Permanent Mall, like, this Friday night. Friday nights when it's the Mall doing things. Like I was like absolutely let's go to Mall man. Oh my god, my sons taking me to The Mall. It was so exciting. And like I just love that my 16 year old son would want to hang out at the mall with me. I mean, I remember being 16 and going to the Mall, right? I Remember a few years ago when I was encouraging him about going the maul and he was like, what do you mean? Oh, baby, the Maul is like the thing.

You guys don't do that yet. So I took some of his friends. Oh no, let me take you to them all. And I said I'm gonna go over here. you can go for a while without like you get used to it by yourself. He's like really? Yeah, yeah, go do thing, you know, good to go to do it. And then one of his little girlfriends kind of took him on sort of a pseudo date.

Mall Observations and Parenting Perspective 10:00

He was like 12 or 13 and she was 14, 15, she's a little older. And so they met and I said, no, I'll just drop you off. She's like, really? I say, you have your phone. You're good. Do you understand? You don't go in a bathroom with them people. If any man comes up to you, kick him in the nuts and you do what you got. I go through all that. Let me be real clear. Just be careful of those things. But have a great time. Here's some money. Trust me, he's just like mom. That was so fun. I'm like I know going to the mall It's a thing when you're when your like a 12 13 14, right?

So anyway, so we go to mall perimeter all you see are all these good-looking young men, you know? I don't know, everybody looks about 12 to me now, but they're probably 19, 20, 25, whatever. All kinds of butts everywhere hanging out. I'm like looking at it all like, I was like wow, wow. And sometimes it just distracts me. He's like numb to it. We've talked about it, so he's just like no, no I would never, either, it looks stupid. So, okay. Thank God. But, um, yeah, I don't know. Don't get it. It's fascinating.

Fascinating. Maybe he's just trying to be unique, differentiate, but that's where I'm at. I might go now. Um, just, you know, see if there's anything, anybody has any insight. Yeah, that guess you're right. Baby, it means you are tough. That's really interesting. Yeah, it does work. It's working for them some kind of way. Oh, men with the contacts. Why men are walking around with their pants and the underwear still showing? Like, why is that still happening? And I'm confused because Yeah, you say, they all do it, that's why they do.

Well, I thought a lot. You know what? There's a lots to be said for herd mentality. And you're right. Fitting in, and if you feel like, well, this is what everybody's doing, This is the cultural norm, And to fit in I'll do the same thing. Absolutely correct. You're probably, that's where we're at. It happened, it started happening. I mean, I wore my pants low. But we weren't wearing it that. We wore them down a little bit lower, you know? But not like this. When it broke to the full underneath, like at the bottom, It's on the thigh.

Like it's really, really interesting. All my thugs pulled out their pants. I don't, you really think there's a down low gay thing still associated with it? I dont think so because I see so many guys doing it. They're not gay. I have gaydar. Black men can be on the DL and hide it a whole lot more. Even I won't pick it up on a lot of them. I don't know. I really don'- I bet there's some, but I mean, I dunno if I buy that. You know? Some women must. Detroit native, what's up Jessica? What up, though?

Podcasts be out Monday. Oh no, like, see, you wore it at 12 because you didn't- no. It's getting hot in here. The sun's coming out. I don't think it's still a gay thing. I really don' like that was the old thing in the prison and it came out and there was like this misunderstanding. That's what I'm saying. It's been decades of transition and these people are so far, you know what i mean? Like I dont think there's any connection.

Comments, BBLs, and Plastic Surgery 14:00

Thats what im so confused at about it. But you know, we have all kinds of rituals, I guess, that we still do. We have no idea why we do them. And we of words we say, find out, oh, That's where that's from. You know lots of things we various cults and pagan things and satanic rituals we do all kinds of weird shit that we don't actually know where it came from when you find out you're like oh that's not okay maybe i'll stop saying that word or doing that thing like i don' t know how i feel about that You go when you find out things are like, oh, that's why we do that in this culture and they've kind of you know Washed it the darkness away and you don't know why you're doing it, but you are continuing to be a part of the system It's fascinating.

So maybe that is just part they don' know So somebody says your husband Lisa your Husband does it was it cuz it's falling off of him or he wants to do it You know what I mean? the plumbers and stuff where the thing is falling and the guys with the big old bellies and they're trying to, you know, they are not trying where to right size and it's coming down. I'm not talking about that. You know what I mean? I am talking very intentional. Um, I don't know. It's too much. So I really want to understand it.

Because I would like it to go away. On that note, um, on that I do not understand BBLs. Below butt, leg, below, I don't know what that means, Christine, whack. Oh, somebody did it intentionally upset his mother. Okay, I can see that, yeah. Yeah, children do things. I'm like, you know, uh-huh. Oh yeah, a plumber butt's not the same. Nah, that's different. You know. Sometimes my pants fall. Bennett and my son's like Mom, pull up your pants. And I go, Bennett, sorry, they just were falling down. They didn't bring a belt.

Some times they do fall down, is what it is. Women in stilettos, those are horrible, aren't they? You know, anyway, I'm going to go and see if anybody has any insight. It's over yet. Yeah, no, right. I am reading all the comments because, you know when I post this, if I, post it, they go away and I don't like that. Just want to say I do too. If I crack the case, yeah, it is a big perennial question, right? I need to do, um... Yeah, the black man on the down low with the gay thing. It's really interesting that they keep out, they do.

There's a lot of married men doing a whole lot things on The DL. I mean, that's shocking. They're like, oh, for real? There is alot of that going on. That's why I wear tight baseball pants. What are you talking about, Karen Lee? On a side note, my skin is amazing. Well, thank you, boo. I'm doing lots of things for my skincare. There's a whole, I got a new skin serum I am using. It's on my website. Just put it on there yesterday. But I don't talk about everything that I always do. And I do a serum with my red light.

Gay still wear tight pants. Everybody wears tight pants. Gays still wear tightpants. Of course they do because they have good bodies. The gays care. the gay's are keeping the shit tight. Okay? And so do the fit. Straight people. Oh lord. Some weird comments. No, I'm not gonna read all those. Why are you in the car? I just came back from the UPS store which was closed and I had to get a battery for my my glucose meter I go I want to do all my blood glucose today and last night the damn battery was I'm like can't know my numbers I like to track my number sometimes I couldn't do in it so yeah I've just back and whatever reason car videos poll really they run really well on Instagram so I'll make videos in the car just to feed the algorithm don't ask me why but you know I play the game Brazilian butt lift Lord I just learned BBL what is BPL what if everybody's talking about is that some like horrible thing I shouldn't be saying talk about other things people do don' understand eyelashes B BL sagging pants What is BBL?

Somebody tell me. Post Malone just has me upset his mom. Oh, Post malone, really? Oh that poor boy. That's some of his songs about his mama, right?

Post Malone, Skin Care, and Closing Thoughts 19:00

Cause she killed herself, I think. He's really talented. Um, Oh Brazilian butt lift. Thank you for somebody for telling me what a BPL was. I don't know what the hell you're talking about. that's how far from plastic surgery I am. Um, isn't that sad where we are? Where we're like, we think it's so normal to just pay 10, 15, 20 thousand dollars to put fake shit in our body to look pretty. So weird that this is normal. My son goes to school, he has a ton of Asian friends. That's Korean and Vietnamese and Chinese and stuff.

Like his first girlfriend was Korean. And he was like, mom, do you know Korea? Like they have a certain set beauty standard. It's so tight, it's totally normal for almost everybody to have surgery. He's explaining all of it. because it's so horrible, it so sad. And you know, I'm like, so glad he thinks that. He's like can you imagine? Like their eyes have to be a certain way, their chin has to, he was explaining all of it. Because it like. It's like almost everybody has plastic surgery. And they're open about it, it's socially accepted.

It almost like if you don't, you are a loser. Like you do not care enough about what we care about. Because he's, like, the Koreans are really into skin. I'm like oh yeah, they are into all of the things. But I didn't know it was that. So all his Korean friends are explaining. One of his friends is not there. He's I don' know why she went home. Is she having surgery? She was, oh, no, she would have told me. She would tell me, because they don't care. They get, you know, She actually doesn't like all that and wants to live in America because she doesn' want all of that surgery.

And I was like, wow, really interesting. Yeah, Brazilian butt lifts and they do weird things. You know? Oh, Post Malone, I feel bad about him, but I know something's wrong with you. I mean, right? You're that angry about your mother, you hurt, and you do that to your face. That's tough. Makes me wanna go, maybe I'm gonna write him a, Imma go do a little prayer. Imma meditate and send a prayer to Postmalone. Love his music, not gonna lie. I mean, I cry at some of his songs. I'm like, oh, he is feeling it.

He is feelin' it, and he's feeling. And a lot of the songs, they're me. Like I could be singing this song. Options? Oh my God, love it! When I am really feeling down, that's when I listen to that song, like you know what? You don't have options, girl. What are my choices? Who am I gonna call? My daddy, my mother, or my grandmother? Or my rich uncle? None of them. It's on me. The options are you. Who you gonna go and call my husband? I had one of those once. No ma'am. Anyway! I'm gonna go work. I have to work, I'll go check on my chickens and go get some eggs out of the chicken coop.

And on that note, i have babbled too long. Much love to y'all, have an amazing, um... But it scares me. That man's not in charge of anything, yall please. Come on now. You think he's really to blame for anything? I mean... That's a telegram conversation. Go to my Telegram channel. Bye.