Why Kids Are More Rude and Disrespectful Than Ever—and How to Fix It
Are kids more rude and disrespectful than ever—or does it just feel that way? If your child’s eye rolling, snapping, or sharp tone has gotten worse, you’re not imagining it—and you’re not failing as a parent. In this episode, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge explains why kids are ruder today and why rude and disrespectful behavior is actually a sign of nervous system overload—not bad parenting or poor values.
When a child’s brain is dysregulated, skills like empathy, patience, and respectful communication go offline. That’s why consequences, lectures, and yelling often backfire. In this episode, you’ll learn how calming the brain first restores connection, cooperation, and respect at home.
In this video, you’ll learn:
-Why rude and disrespectful behavior is a stress response, not defiance
-How overstimulation and exhaustion shut down self-control and empathy
-Why kids often “hold it together” all day and explode at home
-What to say in the moment instead of escalating power struggles
-How Regulation First Parenting™ helps rebuild respect without yelling
Rude and disrespectful behavior doesn’t mean you’ve lost your child—or your authority. When you regulate first, connection and respectful behavior follow.
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ABOUT DR. ROSEANN CAPANNA-HODGE:
I’m Dr. Roseann, Founder of The Global Institute of Children’s Mental Health and host of the “Dysregulated Kids Podcast” podcast. For over 30 years, I’ve helped thousands of families address emotional dysregulation and dysregulated behaviors in children through my BrainBehaviorReset® program. As a psychologist, author, and mom of two neurodivergent boys, I know firsthand the struggles you face as a parent. The journey to helping your child regulate their emotions begins with understanding and connection. My mission is to provide science-backed, brain-based tools that foster lasting calm, emotional resilience, and happy families. Subscribe to this channel for new solutions every week on managing your child’s focus, anxiety and dysregulated behaviors naturally.
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